fingerer

noun

1. One who fingers, especially in the sense of sexual stimulation.

   “In fact, the rose appears to be the focus of interest for not only the fingerer but for the fingered, since the bouquet's holder is modestly casting her eyes upon it rather than upon her partner.”

   “Diedra smiled back like a first-time daughter fingerer, wiping her hand on the towel”

   “The girls were having lots of fun rolling around on the bed, though Kacie was a much better fingerer and occasional eater.”