surreality

noun

1. (countable, uncountable)The state of being incongruous or surreal.

   “The surreality of the crash scene dawned upon him only when he saw a holy figure in the smoke.”

   “And when he goes to greet his mother the surreality of it all stares him in the face: in two years she's turned into a little old lady.”

2. (countable, uncountable)That which is surreal; a surreal entity, event or other fact.

   “The surrealities of life are the paradoxes thereof.”